Working with High-Conflict People as a Manager
44mIntermediate2020-04-06
Authors

Marlene Chism
Consultant, Educator, Author
Course details
Managers need to work with all types of people, even those considered to be difficult or high-conflict people. Learn how to manage and lead high-conflict people and guide them towards positive behavioral change. In this course, executive educator Marlene Chism explains how to recognize high-conflict behaviors and irresponsible language, redirect and communicate more effectively, ask employees for change, and understand the cultural roadblocks that make it hard to manage and confront difficult behavior. Marlene also provides tips for expanding your conflict competency—by calling out and clearing articulating unwanted behavior in the workplace—and improving your strategic communication skills. The three work stories in the course help you see how the lessons apply to real-world conflicts.
Skills covered
CommunicationWell-Being and Self-CarePersonal DevelopmentProfessional DevelopmentLeadership and ManagementDeep Dive (X:Y)
Concepts
Introduction
- Working with high-conflict people
High-Conflict People - What You Should Know
- Define high-conflict personality versus high conflict behavior
- Recognize high-conflict behaviors
The Challenge Before You
- Change your perspective when in high-conflict situations
- Recognize the four types of irresponsible language
Gaining Clarity
- Identify the high-conflict behavior that needs to change
- Three rules of asking for behavior change
Power and Position
- How culture affects your ability to talk about high-conflict behavior
- Work story - How power structures affect the communication strategy when addressing high conflict
Expanding Conflict Competency
- How to manage resistance when addressing high conflict
- How to courageously call out unwanted behaviors in the moment
- Work story - Increase your capacity for high conflict
Strategic Communication Skills
- Listen to increase trust
- Boundaries and consequences in changing high-conflict behavior
- Work story - What to do when high-conflict behaviors have gone on too long