De-Escalating Conversations for Customer Service
49mAdvanced2022-01-07
Authors

Myra Golden
Author, Trainer, Keynote Speaker
Course details
Nearly every customer service professional has encountered a livid customer. These individuals may yell, curse, or forcefully disagree with a policy that you must enforce, but can't control. Such situations are unquestionably tough, but—with the right approach—you can consistently de-escalate the tension. In this course, instructor Myra Golden shares strategies for defusing intense situations, providing practical approaches that can help you calm angry customers. Myra goes over what often causes situations to escalate, and shares practical steps you can take to prevent an escalation. She also provides tips that can help you reframe conversations, manage expectations, handle customers who ask for your supervisor, and more.
Learning objectives
Recognize examples of pushing when dealing with a customer.
Summarize the goal of reframing conversations.
Identify the benefits of using partnering language.
Determine the best response to a customer who asks to speak to a manager.
Identify statements that can be used to acknowledge a customer’s issue.
Learning objectives
Recognize examples of pushing when dealing with a customer.
Summarize the goal of reframing conversations.
Identify the benefits of using partnering language.
Determine the best response to a customer who asks to speak to a manager.
Identify statements that can be used to acknowledge a customer’s issue.
Skills covered
Customer Service ManagementCustomer Service SkillsCustomer ServiceCommunicationProfessional DevelopmentLeadership and ManagementDeep Dive (X:Y)
Concepts
0. Introduction
- 01 - Why you've been unsuccessful with angry customers
1. Pre-empt an Escalation
- 02 - Three reasons situations escalate and how to stop the cycle
- 03 - Positive positioning with customers
- 04 - The principle of don't push
- 05 - Manage expectations with customers
- 06 - Be regretful, but direct with customers
2. Three-Step De-escalation
- 07 - Recognize the customer's emotions
- 08 - Reframe the conversation
- 09 - Resolve the customer's issue
3. Double Your Effectiveness De-escalation
- 10 - Listen with the intent to understand
- 11 - Use partnering language with customers
- 12 - Dealing with your own frustration
- 13 - Dealing with demanding customers
4. Common Customer Issues
- 14 - When a customer asks for a manager
- 15 - When a customer disagrees with your policy
- 16 - Yelling or cursing customer
- 17 - Customer's request is not possible
Conclusion
- 18 - Start, stop, continue exercise